Which wolf will you feed?

A well-known Cherokee legend tells of a man teaching his grandson that inside each of us, two wolves fight – one darkly evil, capable of greed, anger, self-pity, and guilt. The other is light and good, joy, peace, serenity, generosity, compassion and faith. As the story goes, the grandson asks, “But which one will win?”

The grandfather replies with a quiet smile, “The one I feed.”

Shirtsleeves to Shirtsleeves? Not as common as you’d think…

One of the common-held beliefs around financial planning and wealth is that most family wealth only lasts three generations: One to make the wealth, one to maintain it, and one to spend it. If you look up the three-generation wealth curse, you’ll find article after article about it. So, why does this happen? How does a family go from self-starting to feckless in such a short time?